Love conquers all , ha , such a fallacy!

So this has been bothering me for a while, maybe ,I am a cynic or a little to literal but go with me on this and tell me what you think Many people seem to use the phrase “ Love conquers all” to describe being completely in love with someone that no matter the situation the love between them will get them through.

By definition conquer means: to gain or acquire by force of arms : subjugate , to overcome by force of arms :vanquish , to gain mastery over or win by overcoming obstacles or opposition , to overcome by mental or moral power : surmount and finally the biblical definition from Rom 8:37 :No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us.

By definition love means: strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties ,attraction based on sexual desire : affection and tenderness felt by lovers , affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests b : an assurance of love , warm attachment, enthusiasm, or devotion , a : unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another: as (1) : the fatherly concern of God for humankind (2) : brotherly concern for others b : a person's adoration of God, a god or personification of love, to like or desire actively : take pleasure in , to thrive in and finally the biblical definition from I Cor. 13:4-7 :Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

With the definition of the two words, how can love conquer all? If using the definitions of the two words about how can such a postive feeling therefore take by a negitive action to conquer any situation?

Think about it....

I think people take words out of the context it is ment for to therefor justify an action or emotional state instead of taking the time to clearly understand what it is he/she is trying to express.

Think about this...

That being IN love does not simply make every situation all better, yes, your state of mind while being in love assist in he/she believing the situation is being conquer . But, if we delve, we can see that being in love with another person IN CONJUNCTION with other attributes(trust, communication, hard work, ect.) will aide in conquering many situation not just love alone. Because love is the final outcome to many other aspects such as personalities, sexual desire, chemistry, enjoyment of that persons company, or even appearance to make the decision in your mind to say , "Hey, I love this person."

So maybe...

We can start saying, "many things about this person and us being together has helped me or us conquer our/my situation".

Pow

I prayed this morning.
I prayed for the ability to be strong to let go and move on.
Yet I woke up today and prayed to have the ability to kill to feel the hurt I could inflict on another man. How can I be the same person with a dual persona?
I want to grow and I want to inflict pain.
That sweet power to see the tears and the pleas to stop yet ignore them for my own benefit. To know that will not heal me but the animalistic side just wants to hear the scream and feel the “punishment” being given.
Can I even move on with all the anger built up just wanting to go Columbine in that dark coat with a gun underneath .Seeing all the people run just from the sheer force of death that I control in that moment. Oh my, could I be a god to those people in the same breath in their last moments of life. Wielding the control of the simple human need
The yearning to live.
Just a crazy ranting of a girl hurt but her own hands lying to herself believing in the lies called words. So hurt and angry for the last time. Tired of repeating the same hurt because I refuse to deal with why I complete the actions I make.
Want to take all those names and faces like a thief in the shadows and stick em up for the falsifying love make em give what I gave back. Bitch slap em with the colt45 see the wince of pain physically not emotionally and feel justice for my heart. Yet if I’m slapping around like a thief I gotta save that last hit for myself.